Love is …

Blue Glass Heart PendantLove is the magic ingredient, it’s the missing piece of the puzzle, it’s what makes everything make sense and makes everything better.

Like everything else that’s good and amazing, love gets properly abused by us humans.

Hollywood Rom Coms. Need I say more?

That is not love. In fact, it’s often not even “rom” nor “com”.

More on “love” to follow …


Control is the Enemy

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People often think that having control is the same thing as having power. But that’s the exact opposite of what’s true.

If your power is dependent on you having control, you’re pretty fucked. Because the fact is, nobody is in control of anything. Control is an illusion.

So trying to hang onto control is the ultimate disempowering (and impossible) act. The more you try/need to control things, the less power you have.

But if you lay down your need/attempt to control things, you can step into the power to be your best self, to make decisions and live life without fear of the future or the unknown, without fear of unwanted outcomes or unfulfilled needs.

Imagine that.

I’m interested in moving from the abstract concepts, to practical applications. In what ways is control the enemy? What does it looks like when this manifests itself? And how does one practically lay down all attempts (or even desires) to control outcomes? Not an easy task. At all. More on that to follow …



A Bit Of An Old Building (3 Windows) In Rodos Old TownTruth needs to be talked about. I need to talk about it. Because there are so many people who get the wrong end of the stick, who take a slightly twisted version of the truth, and painfully live by it, trying to twist themselves, others, and the world around them to fit the warped mould they carry.

For every truth, there are an infinite number of twisted versions of that same truth. Truth is a minefield, and the way through can only be seen with the heart, when love is present to light the way.

This Hot Topic is where I’ll talk about what’s true and what isn’t, and why. Fun fun fun!